Saturday, August 22, 2009

Femdom Spanking is another formed of female supremacy

Spanking is another formed of female supremacy or femdom. It is commonly practice by a lot of couple that is engaged in a bdsm lifestyle. This methods is provided in many different techniques.

Red butts

Spanking is probably the most widely practiced of the BDSM activities. From a playful smack on the buttocks to the traditional American birthday spankings (“one slap for each year and one to grow on”) or as part of the sexual foreplay, lots of people play with spankings even if they think that BDSM games are for perverts. One of those hard to believe data that you can read from time to time in our area (who can take a poll in an activity that most people will not discuss with strangers?), estimates that more than 50% of the people use spanks of some kind as a sexual game. Spankings are our main interest also, as we suppose they are for most of our gentle visitors. As usual, I’m writing as a man punishing a woman, but you can modify it to suit your taste. And remember that this is supposed to be a fantasy among consenting adults.

Sensual (or sexual) spanking

A spanking can be a punishment, it can be fun, and it can be a sensual experience. These are the ones we are going to talk about here: sensual and sexual spankings. A sensual spanking is given for the bottom enjoying the sensations of the spanking in his/her skin. There is no manifest intention of arousal or the purpose of having sexual relations after. The bottom must gradually submit to you and trust you. A sexual spanking, instead, is used as foreplay for lovemaking, the style is freer, and there is intimate touching. If you are expecting to read here the right way to spank, you are in the wrong pages. We believe that there is no right way for spanking as there is no right way for making love (sorry for the missioners). There is no right way for a relationship. Or maybe, the right way is the way that works for both of you. We are going to give you general guidance on principles that have worked for others. Play and experience sensations. As the “s/he”s or “his/hers are difficult to read (and to write), I will write as a male top with a female bottom. Adapt it to your own preferences. And I’m going to write as if this was the only way. Remember it isn’t.


First, take your time. There are no “quickies”. A good spanking can begin days before the actual scene. It begins when you tell your bottom that she is going to be spanked, and you give her the day and the hour. Let the bottom’s mind do its part of the work (and, why not? let your mind play also). Remind her frequently of the appointment. Explain what you plan to do, how she should be dressed, focus her mind in her fate. Use the appropriate language for your kink. (Father to daughter, husband to submissive wife, teacher to pupil, Master to slave, whatever lights you both on). If you do it properly, she (and you) will be very excited from the beginning of the actual spanking. Anticipation is a good part of the game.

The positioning

And finally, the moment arrived. She is ready (and eager). But you are in no hurry. Make her wait a little with some corner time. You can finish your coffee, read the newspaper, make a last phone call. Then make her come to you, make her ask for her spanking, put her in position. Which position? First of all, we believe that the best way of beginning a sensual spanking is with her on your knees, fully dressed. The OTK position is so intimate, the bodies in contact, the upraised buttocks of the bottom offered, a pleasure for the senses. The bottom should be comfortable, for not being distracted from the spanking by having to worry about not falling, or by a forced position. So maybe you should seat in the middle of a couch, with her in your lap and her upper body and legs resting on the couch. Or in a bed, or any other position that is comfortable for both of you, as you will be a long time in that position. The buttocks should be raised, the legs slightly opened. Take your time while positioning her, make her collaborate on it. Caress softly her body, her hair, her buttocks. The mix of gentle touching and the blows of spanking is very important, because you want her to receive the greatest range of sensations you can give. A sensual spanking is a party in honor of the bottom. The top’s pleasure lies in giving the bottom a time to remember. (What? Is not the Top supposed to be in charge? How can somebody say? BDSM is a game for two, and both are equally important). A sexual spanking, instead, is for both of you.

Saturday, August 1, 2009

Femdom couple doing some sissy fuck

Goddess Starla will give you some tip on how to fuck your sissy slave she will give her slave a nice sissy fuck that will sure make you enjoy watching. These scenes includes spanking, caning, flogging and more bdsm techniques that will sure make the bdsm lover come back for more. As a Femdom couple they always explore some new methods and techniques on how to compliment each other. To watch this video just visit

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Spanking as a form of female dominance

What a great view! this image is a good example of female dominance. Goddess starla decided to give her male sub some nice pleasuring. Mistress started her torturing by giving her male sub a nice spank in the ass. Well if you were to ask me spanking is a nice method in bdsm that will sure satisfy your submissive by taking the pleasure of pain. If you want to read more articles about this couple just visit Femdom Cuckold

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Face sitting as a form of female domination

Facesitting, also known as queening, is a sexual practice in which one partner sits on or over the other's face, typically to allow or force oral-genital or oral-anal contact, or to further ass worship or body worship. It is common for this position to form part of BDSM, involving dominance and submission, though this need not be the case. Within a BDSM or D/S context, face-sitting can be an especially intense form of erotic humiliation.

Facesitting is common among dominant and submissive individuals, for demonstrating superiority and for sexual gratification. It is also practiced by couples for cunnilingus where the woman kneels over the man, and sits on his upper chest rather than face.

Unlike smothering, in facesitting the bottom partner is not deprived of air.

The full-weight body-pressure, moisture, sex odors and darkness can be perceived as powerful sexual attractions or compulsions. The person sat upon may be in bondage, sexually submissive, or simply held down by the body-weight of the other person. Sometimes special furniture is used, such as a smotherbox or queening stool.

A queening stool is a low seat which fits over the submissive's face and contains an opening to allow oral-genital and/or oral-anal stimulation of the domme while seated. In modern BDSM vernacular, the queening stool allows open access to the crotch while seated. The position allows the pelvic floor muscles (PFM) to relax and therefore partly exposing the labia minora to intimate touch. The gluteus maximus, levator ani and puborectalis or sphincter recti muscles, the major muscles of the crotch, can relax and sag allowing easy access to the vagina and rectum. The queening stool is also related to a "smotherbox," which also allows the person under the seat to be locked in place, restrained by the neck as in a set of stocks. for more femdom articles you can visit FEMDOM STORIES

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Cuckold History

Cuckold is derived from the Old French for the cuckoo, cucu, with the pejorative suffix -old. The earliest written use of the Middle English derivation, cokewold, occurs in 1250. The females of certain varieties of cuckoo lay their eggs in other bird’s nests, freeing themselves from the need to nurture the eggs to hatching. The female equivalent cuckquean first appear in English literature in 1562, adding a female suffix to the "cuck." Wittol, which substitutes "wete" (meaning witting or knowing) for the first part of the word, first appears in 1520.

Cuckolds have sometimes been written as "wearing the horns of a cuckold" or just "wearing the horns". This refers to the fact that the man being cuckolded is the last to know of his wife's infidelity. He is wearing horns that can be seen by everybody but him. This also refers to a tradition claiming that in villages of unknown European location, the community would gather to collectively humiliate a man whose wife gives birth to a child recognizably not his own. According to this legend, a parade was held in which the hapless husband is forced to wear antlers on his head as a symbol of his wife’s infidelity. Whether this did actually happen or not is inconsequential as the phrase has survived; also see the Italian insult cornuto.
Ca. 1815 French satire on cuckoldry, which shows both men and women wearing horns

In French the term is porter des cornes and is used by Molière to describe someone whose consort has been unfaithful. Molière's L'École des femmes (1662) is the story of a man who mocks cuckolds and becomes one at the end. In Geoffrey Chaucer's Canterbury Tales (c.1372-77), the Miller's Tale is a story that humorously examines the life of a cuckold. The genre has recently been revived by Howard Jacobson in his 2008 novel The Act of Love.

Source: Wikipedia/cuckold

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Cock and ball torture (CBT)

Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving torture of the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation or even kicking.

The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic Dominant. There are different methods of CBT or cock ball torture like Ball stretcher, Humbler, Parachute, Testicle cuff and more.

Saturday, March 28, 2009

Mistress eris domination

Mistress eris is always been sweet she knows how to pleasure a slave by giving a nice domination and pain for her slave. this is what i have always wanted to see a real mistress dominating her slave and as a certified femdom or mistress eris prove that she knows how to do it with authority nothing beats a real mistress that know how to get it on anytime you want.